The P Word

Okay, so I posted on what I lovingly refer to as my "Behind the Scenes" Blog the other night, www.DQGDramasAtAGlance.blogspot.com  If you don't know about this other blog, it's the one where I post my in-the-moment dramas whereas this one I tend to use as the narrative or post-drama analysis blog.  So that being said, the other night I wrote what was for me a somewhat intimate over-share about my sex life with Mr. G and I gave SIGNIFICANT PAUSE to the particular use of the P word (G in Anticipation).  


Which word is that?  P for pooch, pouch, purse?  Nope.  Say it with me folks:  PUSSY!!!!!!!!!!  Oh my gawd.  Maybe it's because I know the people reading it and am worried about what all of you are thinking if I write about my crotch.  I've been thinking on it over the past 48 hours, having even gone in to edit it from pussy to some version of "down there."  Seriously, do I as a writer or any of us as members of the female gender need to refer to our sexuality with directional descriptives?  


Really, what word better describes our sex than pussy?  I guess we could keep uttering some juvenile version of vagina by calling it the va-jay-jay.  But seriously, how many of us in the middle of fucking (another brilliant and most apropos word) scream out loud:  "Oh baby, yes!  Ram it home into that hole somewhere down there between my ass and my pee hole!!!"  "Yes, Yes!  Fuck my birth canal harder!" 


Anyway, I'm still contemplating how to move forward in chronicling my dating dramas and all the  sex that I hope will accompany them in my Dramas At A Glance blog.  I am hopeful that soon I'll graduate into adulthood and call that "area down there" what it is in all of its beautiful glory in my writing all the time.  Meanwhile, my wish for all of us is to call it what it is in the privacy of our love and sex lives:  one glorious hot pussy because that's all it is meant to be!